Planning Ahead With Purpose 

When sisters Glenna Whittaker and Shirley Whittaker-Burba first began thinking about their future, they had two priorities: staying together and finding a community that would support them through every stage of retirement. They didn’t want to wait for a health crisis or be rushed into a decision—they wanted to choose their path, on their terms.

That search led them to Episcopal Church Home (ECH) in Louisville, Kentucky, a place where thoughtful planning meets compassionate, personalized living.  It was a decision grounded in love, common sense, and trust—and it’s one they continue to celebrate every day.

“When my sister, Shirley, needed assisted living, we didn’t have to leave the place we’ve called home for over 10 years—Episcopal Church Home,” Glenna shared.  “We began in independent living, and when her needs changed, I moved with her to the assisted living apartments so we could stay together.” 

A True Community From Day One

In 2010, Glenna and Shirley moved into the independent living homes at ECH.  Right away, they felt the difference. Neighbors became friends.  Days filled with activities, laughter, and support made settling in easy.  Even small moments—like two friendly neighbors who helped them figure out a way they could park their car safely in their garage every day—created the sense of belonging they were looking for.

ECH wasn’t just a place to live—it was a community full of connection, humor, and kindness.

 A Seamless Transition to Assisted Living at ECH’s Lyndon House

As the years passed, Shirley’s health needs changed.  But thanks to ECH’s continuing care model, the sisters didn’t have to leave the community they loved for over a decade. Instead, they made the easy transition to Lyndon House, Episcopal Church Home’s assisted living neighborhood.

Related Blog: Lyndon House: Big Community Benefits with a Family Feel

Today, they live as next-door neighbors, their apartments separated only by a single wall.  Whether they’re sharing stories, attending events, or simply knowing they’re nearby, Glenna and Shirley continue to enjoy the gift of togetherness—all while receiving just the right amount of support they each need.

"Now, she gets the support she needs, and I still enjoy my independence, right by her side," Glenna shared with a smile.  "That's the beauty of assisted living here—you receive as much or as little as you need."

The Hidden Costs of Aging at Home—and the Savings of Assisted Living

When Shirley and Glenna chose assisted living at Episcopal Church Home, they found more than just compassionate care and a supportive community—they made a financially smart decision.  While many people assume aging at home is more affordable, the reality can be quite different.  The costs of in-home care, home maintenance, and isolation often add up quickly.

A recent issue brief from the American Seniors Housing Association highlights what we see every day:  When a senior requires more than just a few hours of home care daily, assisted living can actually be the more cost-effective and enriching option.

Assisted living bridges the gap between independence and support, offering not only peace of mind and personalized care but also real savings for families navigating the challenges of aging.

Discover how making the move could improve both the quality of life and your budget.  Read the full blog by clicking on the link below: 

Related Blog: The Hidden Costs of Aging at Home—and the Savings of Assisted Living

Support That Preserves Independence

At Lyndon House, Glenna and Shirley have found the perfect balance: the freedom to enjoy life the way they want, with the peace of mind that help is available if needed.

Residents at Lyndon House benefit from assisted living amenities and resources such as:

• Delicious chef-prepared meals
• Housekeeping and linen services
• Fun daily activities and lifelong learning programs
• Exercise classes and wellness support
• Personal care assistance when needed

"With caring staff, chef-prepared meals, beautiful indoor and outdoor spaces, and enriching activities, every day feels full of life," Glenna shared.

The Sisters appreciate the fact that ECH supports them in staying as independent as possible.  "They do everything for us—except our laundry," they laughed. "We still like to do a few things ourselves!"

It's all about providing the right support while empowering residents to live on their own terms.

Meaningful Connections Every Day

Beyond the amenities, what truly sets Episcopal Church Home apart is the warmth of its people.

Staff members are more than caregivers—they’re trusted friends.  Whether it’s starting a resident’s car on a cold morning or lending a listening ear, the ECH team goes above and beyond to ensure residents feel seen, valued, and cared for.

Glenna and Shirley also treasure the friendships they've built with their fellow residents.  They offer companionship to others who may feel lonely, filling the halls of ECH with kindness and compassion.

“Moving together gave us peace of mind and needed care—the perfect balance,” Glenna noted.  “And when it’s my time to need more, I’m already right where I need to be.”

“Nobody here is truly alone,” Shirley added.  “There’s always a hand to hold and a friend to listen.” 

Creating a Home Full of Memories 

Glenna and Shirley have turned their apartments into homes rich with history and love.  Family photos, treasured heirlooms, and family keepsakes remind them of their roots and the life they’ve shared.

ECH encourages residents to personalize their living spaces, creating an environment that feels comfortable, familiar, and meaningful. "It’s not just an apartment," they explained. "It’s our home—filled with the people and memories we love most." 

Peace of Mind for the Future  

One of the greatest gifts Episcopal Church Home offers is peace of mind.

As a continuing care retirement community (CCRC), ECH offers residents access to a full spectrum of care—from independent living to assisted living, memory support, and skilled nursing—all on the same campus.

For Glenna and Shirley, this has meant the freedom to enjoy today without worrying about tomorrow.  "They’ll take care of us until the end of our days," they said with confidence. "We know we’re in the right place."

As a not-for-profit organization, ECH reinvests in our communities, rather than distributing profits to private owners or shareholders.  ECH’s not-for-profit difference provides its residents with security, comfort, and the ability to focus on what matters most: living a full, joyful life.

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Advice from the Heart

When asked what advice they would give to others considering assisted living at a CCRC like Episcopal Church home, Glenna and Shirley are clear: "Don’t wait until it’s too late. Look early.  Plan ahead.  Choose a place where you feel happy—not just a place that looks good on paper."  And most importantly: "Pick a community where you’re surrounded by friends who become family." 

Discover the Perfect Balance at Episcopal Church Home 

Glenna and Shirley’s story is one of love, resilience, and joyful living.  It's a testament to what’s possible when you choose a retirement community that values your independence, meets your needs, and feels like home at every stage of life.

At Episcopal Church Home, the choice is always yours—and every choice leads to more community, more care, and more life.  As Glenna beautifully said, “I’m already right where I need to be.  Moving together gave us peace of mind and needed care—the perfect balance.” 

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