We all have expectations of what life will be like as we age. Our hair may thin and become gray, our eyesight may worsen, or our hearing may change, these are some of the changes that are considered 'normal' aging.
But what about 'abnormal' aging? Are there warning signs that your loved ones health may be at risk?
Below are some warning signs of 'abnormal aging', so you'll know what to look for to safeguard your loved ones.
Eyesight
Signs that your loved one might be having difficulty seeing include squinting while reading or asking others to read things out loud to them, slow driving, clumsiness, and trips or falls.
One of the most common sight-related problems in aging adults is the development of cataracts, which cloud the vision and render someone nearly blind. At first, a cataract isn't obvious, but if it isn't treated, it will become visible to others as a milky area in the eye.
The good news is they're mostly curable thanks to cataract surgeries, which are common procedures. During cataract surgery, a doctor removes the clouded lens and replaces it with a new, artificial lens.
Other eye changes, though, like glaucoma or macular degeneration, aren't curable. They require ongoing, close monitoring by an ophthalmologist (eye doctor). Glaucoma is an abnormal increase in the eyeball's internal fluid pressure, and is the leading cause of blindness in people 60 and older. But if it's caught and treated early, blindness can be prevented.
Age-related macular degeneration is another leading cause of blindness for older adults, affecting an estimated 20 million Americans. It's caused by deterioration of the central part of the retina and causes "holes," or dark areas, that obstruct a person's vision. One out of three people 75 or older are at risk of it. Macular degeneration is currently considered incurable, but it is treatable. Therefore, adults need to receive yearly eye exams to detect problems early.
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Touch
Many older adults begin to experience decreased sensitivity to hot and cold, or to touch. That's normal. But numbness isn't. And it can be a sign of a more serious neurological problem.
Sudden loss of sensation in an extremity, or along one side of the body, can indicate a stroke. When someone reports a sudden loss of sensation or quick-developing numbness, they should get medical attention.
Numbness that comes on slowly and continues to worsen might also be an indication of a neurological problem, so it is best to consult your loved one's doctor.
Diabetes is another potential cause of numbness—particularly in the hands and feet because it causes decreased blood circulation. If your loved one experiences worsening numbness in the extremities, they should be seen by a doctor.
Numbness also can be caused by an adverse medication reaction. When taking multiple medications, vitamins, or supplements, these medications can react with each other in unintended ways. The good news is that, when identified early, medication reactions often are fully reversible by a change in medication or a different dosage.
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Behavioral changes
Uncharacteristic behaviors and instances of severe mood swings can be a sign your loved one is depressed. They could also be a warning sign of Alzheimer's or other dementias.
In dementia cases, one of the most common things people notice is their loved one becomes easily tired in the afternoon and early evening, and they may have behavioral changes. This is known as "sundowning."
Changes in behavior such as laughing at odd moments, sudden bursts into tears or hysterics, or irrational anger can also be a sign someone may be developing dementia. If you notice these in your loved one, encourage him or her to schedule a doctor's appointment.
Memory loss and confusion
The most common symptom of Alzheimer's disease or other dementias is memory loss.
Some memory loss is a 'normal' part of aging. Forgetting an anniversary, for example, or not remembering to meet a friend for coffee, can easily be chalked up to momentary forgetfulness.
But when someone has forgotten something profoundly personal and important, such as their own address, a loved one's name or birthday, or the year they graduated from high school, that may be a sign of dementia.
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